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Growing Old in Korea_ 5 Films Reflecting an Aging Society
South Korea is
aging at a remarkable speed. In 2025, people aged 65 and over accounted for
20.3% of the population, officially placing the country in the category of a
super-aged society. The OECD also reports that the relative poverty rate among
Koreans aged 66 and over is around 40%, the highest among its member countries,
with older women especially disadvantaged. Korean cinema has reflected these
changes in markedly different ways, approaching old age through poverty,
sexuality, dementia, violence, family structures, loneliness, and the desire to
retain autonomy.
Poetry (2010), similarly to LEE Chang-dong’s later Burning (2018), has a lot more to offer than one might assume at
face value. It is a study of loneliness, ageing, and, simply put, leaving the
world whilst simultaneously making peace with it. But also, it proves to be a
meta-commentary on the mission of an artist.
Poetry (2010)
Yang Mi-ja,
played by YUN Jung-hee, is in her seventies, but still has a lot to carry on
her back. Tasked with raising her daughter’s son, Jong-wook, and also facing an
onset of dementia, she decides to do something creative and signs up for a
poetry writing class. The poetry and Yang’s status as an artist serve as
something deeper rather than a simple plot device.
At the same
time, Yang is presented with an overwhelming moral dilemma when her grandson
turns out to be one of the boys involved in the sexual assault of a classmate
who later died by suicide. LEE focuses again on issues of power and money, as
well as class divisions, to highlight flaws of modern Korean society in which,
with sufficient funds, everything can be bought. Long takes also contribute to
the depiction of the protagonist’s mental landscape, while YUN Jung-hee’s
vintage elegance allows the actress to create a complex character who seems
both childish and insecure, as well as mature and dominant.
The title refers
to a rather sad aspect of South Korean society, the “Bacchus Ladies”, elderly
Korean sex workers who solicit in parks and plazas in Seoul, their name
deriving from the popular Bacchus energy drink sold in places where elderly men
gather. E J-yong’s The Bacchus Lady (2016) revolves around one of those women, So-young, who is
65 years old.
The Bacchus Lady (2016)
She lives in a
small complex with a transgender woman and a young man with one leg, and she
tries to make ends meet by prostituting herself in parks, chiefly to elderly
men. The story starts with her in a clinic where she is diagnosed with
gonorrhea, in a sequence that unexpectedly ends up with her taking care of a
little boy whose mother is in jail.
Realism is the
key word here, as E examines many aspects of the life of the elderly in the
country. Apart from the obvious issue of the Bacchus Ladies, he also deals with
solitude and euthanasia, while emphasizing the fact that elderly people also
have sexual needs. YOUN Yuh-jung is the definite star of the work. Her
portrayal of a feisty woman who retains her dignity and pride, despite her
profession and because she manages to make a living by herself, is its biggest
asset.
LIM Sun-ae, who
studied screenwriting with LEE Chang-dong, chose a difficult and uncomfortable
subject for her first feature as writer and director. Inspired by a real-life
case that had a more tragic outcome, An Old Lady (2020) strongly reminds us that sexual violence has more to
do with power than it has with sex.
An Old Lady (2020)
The opening is a
masterclass in subtlety and tact. An act of violence is being perpetrated and
we are told this with only indirect hints of grooming dialogue and lights.
Hyo-jeong, played by YE Soo-jung, is a 69-year-old woman who is sexually
assaulted by a young male nurse aide while he is supposed to be giving her
physiotherapy treatment following a knee operation. Overwhelmed by shame,
Hyo-jeong takes time to gain strength and decide to report what happened.
The police are
incredulous, and the usual victim-blaming tendency is amplified by the age gap
between the woman and the perpetrator. Possible dementia is also added to the
assumptions used to undermine her credibility. First and foremost, LIM wants us
to reflect on the real drive behind sexual violence. By focusing on violence
against an elderly woman, the director stresses the point that the crime is
about exercising power over a vulnerable person, rather than sexual attraction.
YE Soo-jung deservingly shines, giving an outstanding and yet restrained
performance.
Dementia has
played a significant part in South Korean cinema across genres, with works like
A Moment to Remember
(2004) using it in a romance
drama setting and Memoir of a Murderer
(2017) using it as a plot
device for a serial killer story. Debut director LEE Sang-hak also uses the
illness in his first work, albeit this time for a uniquely treated thriller
called Mother's Kingdom (2024).
Mother's Kingdom (2024)
Joo Kyung-hee,
played by NAM Ki-ae, lives with her adult son Doh Ji-wook. When his mother has
an onslaught of early dementia and her memory begins to fail her, Ji-wook sets
out to find the memory he has lost and discover what happened to his absent
father. LEE approaches the thriller in a very understated, slow-burn manner,
taking his time to set up its kingdom. Throughout this, it carries a tense
undercurrent that threatens to burst out at any given moment, but he exercises
restraint.
The editing also
plays a big part in the production’s appeal, as many of the reveals come not
with dialogue or extended showcasing but with quick insert cuts and short
transitions that give just enough information without ever over-explaining.
Coupled with cinematography that seems to lose brightness as Kyung-hee loses
her memories and darkens as Ji-wook gains his, it works to set the atmosphere
perfectly. In the context of an aging society, dementia becomes a crisis of
memory for an entire family.
Homeward
Bound
KIM Dae-hwan’s Homeward
Bound (2025) approaches aging from a different direction. Rather than
focusing on physical decline or economic precarity, it looks at middle age,
adult children, sexuality, and the possibility of reorganizing family life
later on.
Homeward Bound (2025)
The story
follows Jung-ha, played by JANG Young-nam, a teacher and painter who lives
peacefully in Chuncheon while secretly dating her girlfriend Ji-seon. One day,
Jung-ha’s son, Jin-woo, returns home from Canada unexpectedly with his new
girlfriend Jenny, whom he quickly announces as his fiancée. Shortly afterward,
Jenny’s parents also arrive in Chuncheon, and as the three couples attempt to
stay under one roof for a few days, long-buried secrets begin to surface.
KIM skillfully
drives the plot forward by gradually revealing more and more shocking and quite
liberating truths about family members. Remarkably, he manages to achieve this
while delivering a relatively happy ending, which, considering that the main
couple is queer and the son plans to become something of a stay-at-home
husband, feels refreshingly progressive. JANG Young-nam impresses with her
natural performance, especially in her portrayal of a closeted queer
relationship.
Taken together,
these five works show that aging in Korean cinema is not a single subject. It
can mean poverty and labor, as in The Bacchus Lady; moral responsibility and dementia, as in Poetry; prejudice and vulnerability, as in An Old Lady; the disappearance of memory, as in Mother's Kingdom; or the possibility of remaking one’s life and family
in Homeward Bound. As South Korea grows older, its cinema is
increasingly reflecting not simply how long people live, but how dignity,
intimacy, independence, and social recognition change with age.
Written by Panos Kotzathanasis
Edited by kofic