Attending a hetero friend’s wedding. I'm so, so jealous. I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. I thought I was going to get married first! I even had an engagement ring! They say that congratulations and condolences are about helping each other, and as a queer, I wonder if I can get my congratulatory money back, but for now, I do my best and attend whenever I am invited. Just as I wanted to get married, I hope that it is possible for couples who dream of same-sex marri...more

Attending a hetero friend’s wedding. I'm so, so jealous. I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. I thought I was going to get married first! I even had an engagement ring! They say that congratulations and condolences are about helping each other, and as a queer, I wonder if I can get my congratulatory money back, but for now, I do my best and attend whenever I am invited. Just as I wanted to get married, I hope that it is possible for couples who dream of same-sex marriage, but at the same time, I have this thought. Is the ‘marriage system’ really necessary to live well together? Look at several families.less